Ertu n\u00fdr \u00e1 K\u00fdpur og ert a\u00f0 fara \u00ed \u00e6vint\u00fdri \u00ed leit a\u00f0 st\u00f6kki inn \u00ed stefnum\u00f3tsumhverfi\u00f0 \u00ed landinu ? Ekki hika vi\u00f0 e\u00f0a halda aftur af \u00fe\u00e9r vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru svo margir a\u00f0rir \u00fearna \u00fati alveg eins og \u00fe\u00fa. Hvort sem \u00fe\u00fa ert \u00feessi fallega st\u00falka e\u00f0a einstaklega bygg\u00f0 og myndarleg herra, \u00fe\u00e1 er bili\u00f0 \u00e1 milli \u00fe\u00edn og n\u00e6stu \u00e1star \u00feinnar \u00e1 K\u00fdpur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa st\u00edgur \u00fat \u00fear.<\/p>\n
\u00de\u00fa ert hugsanlega uppfullur af hugsunum og kv\u00ed\u00f0a um hvort \u00fea\u00f0 muni virka e\u00f0a ekki. Eins og \u00ed \u00f6llu, getur stefnum\u00f3t \u00e1 K\u00fdpur veri\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0 reynsla e\u00f0a anna\u00f0. Ef \u00fe\u00fa veist hva\u00f0 sem dregur \u00feig, eru stj\u00f6rnurnar l\u00edklega \u00ed r\u00f6\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed hag. K\u00fdpur er me\u00f0 bl\u00f3mlega stefnum\u00f3tasenu me\u00f0 m\u00f6rgum einhleypingum \u00ed bo\u00f0i ef \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0.<\/p>\n
K\u00fdpur er \u00feri\u00f0ja st\u00e6rsta og fr\u00e6gasta eyjan \u00ed Mi\u00f0jar\u00f0arhafinu. \u00dear sem \u00fea\u00f0 er st\u00f3r fer\u00f0amannasta\u00f0ur fyrir marga hefur \u00fea\u00f0 komi\u00f0 s\u00e9r vel fyrir \u00feetta land \u00fear sem efnahagur \u00feess er h\u00e1tekjuma\u00f0ur og f\u00f3lk bjargast betur en \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00f6ndum.<\/p>\n
Helst, a\u00f0 finna s\u00e1luf\u00e9laga \u00ed sl\u00edku landi eins og K\u00fdpur er m\u00f6gulegt fyrir einstakling sem hefur virkilegan \u00e1huga \u00e1 a\u00f0 eiga sl\u00edkan. Allt sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 gera er a\u00f0 gefa \u00fe\u00e9r t\u00edma til a\u00f0 \u00edhuga \u00fdmis svi\u00f0 vandlega til a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feeim markmi\u00f0um sem sett eru fyrir dagsetningu. Vi\u00f0 skulum taka langan t\u00edma inn \u00e1 nokkur sv\u00e6\u00f0i sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga \u00feegar vi\u00f0 stefnum \u00e1 K\u00fdpurb\u00faa.<\/p>\n
Margt gerir K\u00fdpur a\u00f0 elskulegum og fri\u00f0s\u00e6lum sta\u00f0, \u00fear \u00e1 me\u00f0al hin hversdagslega stefnum\u00f3tamenning sem b\u00e6\u00f0i karlar og konur b\u00faa vi\u00f0 \u00ed landinu. \u00datlendingar geta l\u00edka la\u00f0ast a\u00f0 \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 hefur \u00f6fundsvert frelsi og hreinskilni \u00ed landinu og ekki er fari\u00f0 eftir str\u00f6ngum l\u00f6gum. Sl\u00edk \u00fatsetning \u00ed kringum stefnum\u00f3t hvetur f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed opinberri birtingu \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0ar.<\/p>\n
\u00deeir sem eru \u00e1stfangnir hafa tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 \u00e1st s\u00edna \u00e1 mismunandi vegu , og ef ma\u00f0ur er a\u00f0d\u00e1andi \u00feess a\u00f0 s\u00fdna opinberlega \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0, \u00e6tti ma\u00f0ur ekki a\u00f0 halda aftur af s\u00e9r \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa munt sj\u00e1 a\u00f0ra \u00ed landinu gera \u00fea\u00f0 sama. Margir fr\u00e1 landinu telja a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur kynni a\u00f0 kynnast hinum \u00e1hugaver\u00f0a \u00ed gegnum stefnum\u00f3t. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka nau\u00f0synlegt skref fyrir hj\u00f3naband \u00fear sem enginn myndi giftast fyrir stefnum\u00f3t til a\u00f0 hafa grunn\u00feekkingu um hinn a\u00f0ilann.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er til a\u00f0 neita \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 flest l\u00f6nd meti menningu s\u00edna og hef\u00f0ir. \u00c1 K\u00fdpur hefur f\u00f3lki\u00f0 l\u00e6rt lei\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 fl\u00e9tta saman n\u00fat\u00edmal\u00edfi og si\u00f0um og \u00fea\u00f0 er meira l\u00edfsst\u00edll \u00feeirra. B\u00faast m\u00e1 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 K\u00fdpverjar giftist einhverjum sem deilir sama tungum\u00e1li og tr\u00faarbr\u00f6g\u00f0um.<\/p>\n
\u00c1 K\u00fdpur upplifir ungt f\u00f3lk \u00fer\u00fdsting um a\u00f0 giftast \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur 30 fyrir karl og 29 fyrir konu. Hj\u00f3naband vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sem deita eru einnig virt af kristnum og m\u00faslimum, en krafturinn hefur breyst me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum.<\/p>\n
\u00deeir sem deita g\u00e6tu vali\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00faa saman fyrir hj\u00f3naband e\u00f0a giftast eftir a\u00f0 hafa eignast barn. K\u00fdpverjar vi\u00f0urkenna \u00e1st og skuldbindingu til maka sinna \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 gefur s\u00f6nnun um langvarandi fullkomna \u00e1st og fjarvera \u00feeirra lei\u00f0ir til \u00e1str\u00ed\u00f0u me\u00f0al maka.<\/p>\n
Me\u00f0 stefnum\u00f3ta\u00f6ppum kynnist ma\u00f0ur sta\u00f0bundnum me\u00f0limum \u00e1 K\u00fdpur og kynnist \u00feeim \u00e1\u00f0ur en ma\u00f0ur hittir \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed eigin pers\u00f3nu. \u00deessar s\u00ed\u00f0ur bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 vettvang fyrir lifandi spjall svo a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur geti byrja\u00f0 a\u00f0 da\u00f0ra \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann skipuleggur augliti til auglitis.<\/p>\n
\u00c1 K\u00fdpur f\u00e6r ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 deita hverjum sem manni l\u00edkar og \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma sem \u00feeir vilja. Me\u00f0 hj\u00e1lp stefnum\u00f3taappa \u00e1 netinu er umhverfi\u00f0 hagst\u00e6tt \u00feannig a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur getur haga\u00f0 s\u00e9r eins og hann vill.<\/p>\n
Algengar stefnum\u00f3tas\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1 K\u00fdpur eru me\u00f0al annars;<\/p>\n
Konur \u00e1 K\u00fdpur eru blessa\u00f0ar me\u00f0 velkominn anda og myndu vilja bera alla me\u00f0 s\u00e9r. \u00dear sem landi\u00f0 er vins\u00e6ll \u00e1fangasta\u00f0ur fyrir marga sem lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta fr\u00edsins, vilja konurnar alltaf a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur f\u00e1i fr\u00e1b\u00e6ra upplifun og skilji eftir j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ar athugasemdir um landi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
A\u00f0 deita einni af konunum fr\u00e1 K\u00fdpur er blessun \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00e6r eru ekki bara fallegar heldur l\u00edka sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6ruggar og greindar. A\u00f0 fela tilfinningar s\u00ednar er ekki \u00feeirra hlutur \u00fear sem \u00feeir tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 samskipti geri allt betra, og s\u00fa sta\u00f0reynd a\u00f0 \u00feeir eru alltaf tilb\u00fanir til a\u00f0 eiga samskipti gerir \u00fe\u00e1 elskulegri \u00fear sem fullvissa er til sta\u00f0ar fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 hafi hn\u00f6kralaust fl\u00e6\u00f0i.<\/p>\n
K\u00fdpur er einst\u00f6k og fl\u00f3kin si\u00f0menning me\u00f0 heillandi menningarlegan og s\u00f6gulegan bakgrunn. Mennirnir h\u00e9r eru ansi lo\u00f0nir eins og a\u00f0rir menn annarra \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0a b\u00faast ekki vi\u00f0. Stefnum\u00f3t me\u00f0 einum af karlm\u00f6nnunum fr\u00e1 \u00feessu landi mun lenda \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed myndarlegum, gestrisnum og \u00e1str\u00edkum manni me\u00f0 eftirs\u00f3knarver\u00f0a eiginleika sem passa fullkomlega fyrir s\u00e1luf\u00e9laga.<\/p>\n
Menn fr\u00e1 stj\u00f3rnv\u00f6ldum tryggja hollustu og \u00feeir leggja hart a\u00f0 s\u00e9r til a\u00f0 halda sambandinu \u00e1fram til a\u00f0 vera sterkt og heilbrigt. \u00deetta hefur \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r n\u00e6ringu og styrkingu sambandsins me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0varandi samskipti sem eru algj\u00f6rlega hei\u00f0arleg og teymisvinna.<\/p>\n
Eftir a\u00f0 hafa s\u00e9\u00f0 ofangreind atri\u00f0i til a\u00f0 \u00edhuga \u00feegar deita \u00e1 K\u00fdpur, er betra a\u00f0 hugsa alltaf um \u00fe\u00e1. \u00de\u00fa \u00fearft ekki a\u00f0 hafa minnisb\u00f3k me\u00f0 \u00f6llu ofangreindu heldur bara vera me\u00f0vita\u00f0ur um \u00feau. F\u00f3lk me\u00f0 stefnum\u00f3tareynslu \u00e1 K\u00fdpur<\/a> veit a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 halda \u00f6llum v\u00edsbendingum uppi gerir stefnum\u00f3t ver\u00f0a betri. Taktu nokkrar af \u00feessum v\u00edsbendingum me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r og f\u00e6r\u00f0u sambandi\u00f0 \u00feitt yfir \u00feaki\u00f0. Vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum l\u00edka a\u00f0 huga a\u00f0 misskilningi og hugsj\u00f3nav\u00e6\u00f0ingu, sem eru algeng atri\u00f0i sem geta \u00e1tt neikv\u00e6\u00f0an \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed stefnum\u00f3tum, sem truflar getu manns til a\u00f0 hafa \u00feroskandi tengsl \u00ed raunveruleikanum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ertu n\u00fdr \u00e1 K\u00fdpur og ert a\u00f0 fara \u00ed \u00e6vint\u00fdri \u00ed leit a\u00f0 st\u00f6kki inn…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":4671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1144],"tags":[2191,2181,2185,2078,2195],"class_list":["post-5914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kypur","tag-elskhugi-a-kypur","tag-konur-a-kypur","tag-kypur-menn","tag-stefnumot","tag-stefnumotamenningu","wpcat-1144-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expateuropa.com\/is\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}